Why Paul Wesley & Nina Dobrev Didn’t Get Along on The Vampire Diaries
Paul Wesley and Nina Dobrev shared a very different kind of tension behind the camera.
Six years after his former costar mentioned that she and Paul weren’t the best of friends when they first started portraying star-crossed lovers on The Vampire Diaries, Paul decided to finally clear up all the rumors surrounding their relationship.
“Long story short, I was taking the role very seriously,” he explained during a Sept. 11 episode of Podcrushed podcast. “She was taking the role very seriously. We were all young actors, and we could tell this was gonna be special.”
“I felt an immense amount of pressure,” he continued. “Perhaps that’s why we didn’t get along.”
Acknowledging that he could only speak to his side of things, the Paul—who got engaged to girlfriend Natalie Kuckenburg in July—went on to admit that he took things so seriously at the time that he didn’t really have a sense of humor about things.
“We just conflicted, not about our personalities offscreen, it was more onscreen,” the 43-year-old recalled. “The way in which she wanted to do a scene was not the way in which I wanted to do a scene.”
“We were so young and I was like, ‘It’s all about spontaneity, and that’s what’s gonna create magic onscreen.’ And she was like, ‘No, we need to plan things out.’”
So, because Nina would often try to find ways to “figure out the technicalities of the scene” in advance while Paul tried to do the exact opposite, the two would constantly disagree.
“It’s so funny because people thought we had such great chemistry,” he quipped. “We were the romantic love story on the show, and we kept it on the DL because we did a lot of press. But her and I just notoriously butted heads.”
On one specific occasion, the Smallville actor even remembered getting into a big blowout onset, causing the production to take a half hour break to allow them to cool off.
“The irony of the whole situation is that, as the show grew in success and as I became more comfortable in my role and as a human being—it sounds so absurdly pretentious to say this but it’s the reality—I’d never dealt with fame,” Paul shared. “I didn’t understand it. Frankly, I didn’t like it.”
But with time, the actor grew accustomed to living in the spotlight and his relationship with Nina slowly turned into a true friendship.
“I liked it, but I also hated I,” he added of the public attention. “It really affected me, and I probably wasn’t the easiest person to work with at the time. The irony is that now we’re such good friends and we actually had a few things that we were dabbling with maybe doing something together.”
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Believe it or not, The CW really wanted The Vampire Diaries to be a star vehicle for Jessica Simpson's younger sister Ashlee Simpson but after finding Nina Dobrev, the network eventually cast Ashlee on their Melrose Place revival.
Legend has it, coming off of her run on High School Musical, Ashley Tisdale was also offered the role of Elena, but turned it down to star in Hellcats, which aired for just one season on The CW.
"Half of Hollywood, I think, went out for the role, for all our roles," Nina later told E! News of the intense casting competition. "I guess I did something right. Here I am. We had to discover and find our characters. Every episode we learned something more and something more, and eventually we created and molded these amazing, awesome characters."
While it's hard to imagine anyone else but Nina in the multiple-character role that Elena would ultimately turn into (she also played Katherine Pierce, Amalia Giroux and Tatia Petrova during her six-season stint), the star, who was known for her role on Degrassi at the time, didn't exactly impress the showrunners during her first audition.
"The funniest story about the first impression of Nina is that she didn't make an impression," co-creator Julie Plec explained to EW. "None of us remembered seeing her for the first time. And then she, through her agents and the casting directors, said, 'Hey, listen—I was sick that day, I didn't do my best work, I really really want this part.' [She] put herself on tape, which then got sent to us and it was so magical and so perfect that she basically had the job from that minute forward."
After Nina was announced as the show's Elena, fans of the original book series were furious she did not have the character's signature blonde hair and blue eyes.
Other changes from page to screen included giving Elena a troubled teen brother (Jeremy, played by Steven R. McQueen) instead of a 4-year-old sister Margaret, changing her aunt's name from Judith to Jenna, changing Matt's last name from Honeycutt to Donovan (he's also not related to Vicki, who is his sister in the series) and making Caroline a close friend of Elena's rather than her enemy.
After finding their leading lady, TVD needed the two male components of the essential love triangle. No easy task.
"We looked high and low to cast Stefan and Damon," Julie explained, noting Nina "did chemistry read after chemistry read with multiple actors."
Some of the actors who read for either (and sometimes both!) roles? Zach Roerig (who would go on to play Matt Donovan), Michael Trevino (who would land the role of Tyler Lockwood), Nathanial Buzolic (later cast as Kol), and 7th Heaven star David Gallagher, with Julie admitting of the latter, "He impressed us so much originally...but the whole 7th Heaven thing, I wonder if he'll ever be able to get past that." (She would later cast him as a werewolf after seeing Super 8.)
And then, finally, they found their guys: Paul Wesley and Ian Somerhalder.
"Paul and Ian kind of came in late in the process. Paul auditioned like 15 times, and Ian kind of appeared out of the blue," Julie said. For her part, Nina recalled Paul (who first read for Damon!) standing out from the rest of the guys reading opposite her in the chemistry reads: "The only one who wasn't trying too hard, that didn't speak to me at any point unless we were filming, was Paul Wesley,"she told EW, "so it's funny to think that he did the right thing,"
Before the Lost alum landed the role of Damon, Ian actually really wanted to join HBO's True Blood, auditioning for the role of Jason Stackhouse.
"I auditioned for True Blood. I just couldn't convince Alan Ball that was my role," Ian said during a Q&A about the part which ultimately went to Ryan Kwanten. "And then I didn't get it, and I was very bummed. I couldn't watch True Blood until now."
Ian later revealed on Watch What Happens Live that another actor attempted to sabotage him during the audition process.
"In the last test of the show, there was a guy who showed up, and he was just trying to play super cool and kind of like psych me out in the room, and I just shut it down, and I said, 'No way, man—this is my role,'" he recalled. "And I went in there and just made it happen."
When asked if the general public would be familiar with his competition, Ian replied, "You may know. I honestly don't remember his name."
Just as the series premiere was finally airing on Sept. 10, 2009, news broke that Nina and her co-stars Sara Canning, Candice Accola and Kayla Ewell, as well as celeb photographer Tyler Shields, were apprehended by authorities on disorderly conduct charges in Georgia after they were alleged to be distracting passing motorists during a photo shoot that took place on a freeway.
After they were all cooperative and paid a fine, they were released by the Monroe County Sheriff's Department.
Much like onscreen, love was blossoming on the set throughout its eight-season run.
Paul dated TVD guest-star-turned-The Originals lead Phoebe Tonkin for several years following his split from wife Torrey DeVitto, who played Meredith Fell in season three. Candice and Zach were in a two-year relationship after she briefly dated Steven.
And Joseph Morgan and Persia White fell in love on the set when they both joined the show in season three, going on to get married in July 2014.
And then, of course, there's the biggest IRL TVD relationship...
Delena fans were thrilled when it was revealed the co-stars were dating in real-life, eventually calling it quits in 2013 after three years together...just as Damon and Elena were finally getting together on the show.
But the former couple quickly squashed any rumors of bad blood when they joked about their breakup while accepting the 2014 People's Choice Award for Best Chemistry.
When Nina talked about their split in their joint speech, Ian added, "And yet our characters are still dating on the show." Nina's reply? "It's a good thing it's not awkward...Well, it's a good thing we have chemistry!"
And after Ian's April 2015 wedding to Nikki Reed, Nina had nothing but kind words to say.
"I don't think that's weird at all," Nina responded to a Watch What Happens Live viewer who noted it was odd that she was friends with her ex and his wife. "That's great. Why can't everyone be friends?"
While they were portraying one of TV's most beloved new couples in the show's first season, Nina and Paul "didn't get along" at all during the first five months of filming, Nina revealed.
"I respected Paul Wesley; I didn't like Paul Wesley," she admitted on the Directionally Challenged podcast in 2019. "I remember everyone would walk up to me after the show aired and they'd be like, 'Are you and Paul dating in real life?' because everyone thought that we had such good chemistry. I realize now that there's a fine line between love and hate and we despised each other so much that it read as love."
Eventually, the two sorted out their differences, with Nina explaining Paul is now one of her best friends.
"We ended up getting to a good place and it was fine, but of everyone, I think I probably see him the most and hang out with him the most [now]," she said. "We're probably the closest, like, we hang out a lot and we're really good friends and I love his wife. It's so funny how much has changed."
A huge fan of Taylor Swift, Kevin told E! News in season one he was "desperate to have [Swift] come play a vampire."
He added, "Wouldn't she make an amazing Kirsten Dunst circa Interview with the Vampire-type? Oh my god, I cannot tell you how hard I'm trying to get her. I would kill to have her on the show!"
In fact, he even had her in mind when creating and casting the role of Stefan's BFF Lexi, which would eventually go to fan-favorite Arielle Kebbel.
But alas, Kevin admitted she was "too big" for the show.
While they weren't fans of stunt-casting, Julie's dream was to have Joshua Jackson (a.k.a. Pacey Witter) join the show.
"I think our show works so well because we don't really stunt cast. That being said, if there's some big hot TV star that's available that we love, then…" she noted. "As I always joke, I have my Joshua Jackson fantasy: Pacey in Mystic Falls."
Ideally, he would've taken on the much-anticipated role of Original vampire Klaus, a part so crucial that more than 200 actors auditioned for it before relative unknown Joseph nabbed the villainous role that would launch a successful spinoff, The Originals. If Joshua had ever ended up in the role, it likely would've remained a one-season arc, as originally intended before Joseph proved too irresistible to kill off.
In what was The Vampire Diaries' one true attempt at stunt casting of sorts, the producers reached out to Buffy the Vampire Slayer icon Sarah Michelle Gellar to play Rose, a vampire who developed a connection with Damon.
"Originally me and my pipe dreams had us trying to get Sarah Michelle Gellar for Rose," Kevin revealed to The New York Post. "She was very appreciative but just said no. She was the only stunt casting we'd have ever agreed to."
The Walking Dead star Lauren Cohan nabbed the vampire part instead.
While The Vampire Diaries' fanbase was used to seeing many actors come and go (with a lot of on-screen deaths and resurrections), Nina's announcement that she would be leaving the show at the end of season six stunned many.
"I always knew I wanted Elena's story to be a six season adventure, and within those six years I got the journey of a lifetime," the star wrote in an Instagram post.
Julie also issued a statement. "Saying goodbye to Nina is both bittersweet and beautiful," she said. "We will miss Nina and the four hundred characters she played, but we look forward to the insane and exciting challenge of continuing to tell stories of our Salvatore Brothers and our much-loved and gifted ensemble."
The series went on for two more seasons without Nina, who returned for the series finale.
Way back in season two, Kevin and Julie figured out their ultimate ending while eating in a mall food court, and it's one that probably would've pissed off both Delena and Stelena fans.
"Both brothers should die in the name of saving their girl and then be watching her like ghosts—because we had introduced the Other Side—as she went off into the sunset to live her life," Julie revealed to EW, "and maybe marry Matt Donovan or maybe become a doctor, but that those brothers would be side-by-side watching her live."
But as the series continued and the love triangle fundamentally shifted, their end-game changed. A lot. (Sorry, Matt!)
After Nina's exit and Stefan's relationship with Caroline, Julie and Kevin, who returned to write the series finale after leaving the show at the end of season two, debated two endings.
"There were two pitches on the table: One that gave perfect closure to the season and then another that gave closure to the whole series," Julie explained to EW, adding they had "just as many discussions over killing Damon as we did over killing Stefan, and let me tell you, for a very long time the pendulum swung the other way."
Ultimately, Stefan sacrificed himself, giving Damon the chance to live out his human life with Elena. And after ultimately deciding the fate of one of other TV's other iconic love triangles with Dawson's Creek, Kevin admitted to being torn over who Elena ended the series with.
"It's no secret I was always a fan of Stefan and Elena ending up together," Kevin, who was a Dawson fan in the Dawson-Joey-Pacey love triangle, admitted. "In another universe, that would've been the ending, but we didn't have time to tell that story in the last season because we didn't have Elena. We couldn't get them back together."
"Hello, brother."
Damon's first line in the pilot served as the final line of the series, as the Salvatore brothers were reunited after Damon's human death, a poignant and full-circle ending for the series and the characters' relationship. But it was initially written to be a completely different line.
"The original version was, 'Oh, I see they have hero hair in heaven," Kevin revealed to EW. "Then they hugged."
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